There are different ways people deal with problems! The key concept
in it is how we see the problem! Our perspectives is what drive how we handle
problems. For example, if someone slaps you, the general perspective is, this
person wants to fight, which makes you slap the person back. Another person
might just walk away, because he/she has a different perspective. Our problems
often falls in four different categories – emotional/social, psychological,
physical and spiritual.
One of the most effective way is to get to the root of the problem
holding back your motivation. For you to walk the path to your motivation – you
must begin with knowing the problem. Some problems are simply solved – while
others require more severe solution, which includes speaking to therapist and/or
psychologist! Thousands of research on motivation and problem resolution have
led to one conclusion! No therapist or psychologists can give you motivation.
This is because that motivation is within you, and the only thing
they could do is bring it out! What therapists, psychologist and business
consultants have consistently done in this field is walk you through the path
to bring out the motivation and problem resolution in you. It is a lot like
watching a movie, and the good guy got the bad guy in the beginning. The
audience knows that the bad guy will somehow escape, but the path to his/her
escape is exciting and the screenplay walk our way to that.
I am not trying to make your business perfect! Perfection is
impossible – maybe in an imaginary world. Business is dynamic – how you
approach one market is not the same you would approach another. That is why we only focus on making you more
proficient and effective in dealing with your business! Over the years working
with different kind of people – I have consistently adapt seven simple
statements. They were written/said by top CEOs and executives in the business
world.
I have been practicing these seven statements without even noticing
them, maybe you have too! If we successfully harvest them, we will improve our
abilities to do what we do best! Before you keep reading, please put your brain
in diffuse mode (don’t focus on anything, just let the brain roam about). These
statements do not only work for businesses – but also for private life – for
their abilities to put your mind at ease! The first statement is “always be
proactive”, everything in your business are in your circle of concerns (things
that are bothering you).
This means you must be proactive. For you to be proactive, you have
to focus all your energy into circle of influence! It is finding out the things
that you must influence to minimize/neutralize the circle of concern. The
second is “begin with the end in mind”, which means when you begin a
project/task, you should visualize what you want to see as the end result. Use that
to delegate your effort and allocate your resources into ensuring that you get what
you visualize as the end-result.
The third is “put first thing first”, which means prioritizing
things/tasks/projects as they are relevant to the big picture. It means knowing
important things for you to progress in what you do. For example, to write this
blog, I must first do research (1st priority), then write a blog
article (2nd priority), edit it (3rd priority) and
publish it (4th priority). The fourth is “think win win”, which
build a mutual beneficial relationship. It means people you associate with
(customers, investors, friends and others) will win, and so will you/your
business.
It simplify the possession of three vital characters: Integrity,
maturity and abundance mentality. The fifth is “seek first to understand, then
to be understood”, which is essential in all areas of business and personal
life. If you don’t understand what the other party is saying, chances are you
will drive the topic to a different direction. The sixth is “work as a team and
synergize”, because the team working as one have the ability to be open-minded,
experience the adventure of finding new solution to old problems.
Synergize to keep the team solid, and have team members collaborate
and collectively work as one! The seventh is “always sharpen the saw”, because
it gives room to preserve and enhance the greatest asset you and your business
possess – you and your team! It provide a balance program that renew yourself
and the team – psychologically, socially/emotionally, mentally and spiritually.
With these seven statements – you should be more efficient in dealing with
things that matter to you and your business.
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